The Secret Behind the Secret!


You’ve probably heard of The Secret!

The Secret to live!

The Secret to Money

The Secret to Love

The Secret is apparently everywhere and yet so many people just don’t seem to get it.

What’s this secret.

Well I was on a webinar last night that REVEALED something that is very profound and yet simple!!!

It’s something that you don’t plan.

It just happens because you make a decision.

When you make a decision you take steps.

And when you take steps you are calling things into your life.

It’s actually that simple.

I remember reading (actually listening) cause that’s what I do now. I listen to books. Yes I’m lazy — but it saves me loads of time.

Cause when I tell people I drive and read they are a little confused…..

Anyway so I was “reading/listening” to the book The Secret!

And if you haven’t read it you should go out and get it – I will have one caveat to make. (but that would be later).


So on the Elite Marketing Pro’s Monday weekly hangout we were talking about consistency.

Now Can you say I’m going to be consistent at doing video, or posting blogs, or writing emails.

And if all you do is say you’re going to do but DO nothing then the consistency will never come.

In like manner if you Say you’re building a business, but do NOTHING to build the business then you can’t say you’re building a business.

It’s very interesting twist to things we want in life.

So you have to do what you say you’re going to do in order for it to be done!

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One of the examples from The Secret film was about a woman who wanted a man in her life – but all her actions said otherwise.

Or the guy who wanted a relationship but he always painted himself surrounded with images of woman running away from him.


You see it’s not really that big of a Secret.

You have to do what you want, then you’ll get it.

I wanted a Blog – so I blogged. Now I have a blog.

I wanted to leave my job – so I put in my application to leave – I left on October 31st, 2014

You just have to do it.


You can’t say you want this and not work for it.

Most times your actions speak the belief anyway.

And don’t worry about the whole

“Fake it till you make it” crap. You just do it and you’ll start to see the results.



Let me know what you thought of this post?

If you’ve read The Secret already I’d love to know what you think about the book.



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Hilary De Freitas is a wife, mother, engineer and marketer. She is dedicated to helping mothers build a successful online business from their passions, so that they don't have to choose between career and family. Hilary has been involved in network marketing, affiliate marketing and digital marketing consulting for the past 10 years. Some of the links in this post are 'affiliate links.' This means if you click on the link and purchase the item, I will receive an affiliate commission.

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